"FRIENDS"...HOW MANY OF US HAVE THEM?
- susettebryant
- Aug 8, 2024
- 2 min read
There are actually people who are afraid to announce their good news in front of their own “friends.” I’m talking about the “friends” from whom you have to hide big promotions, a new boo thang or achieving your latest fitness goals. You know, the friend that gets a little bit sadder anytime you’re a little bit gladder!
All of these behaviors are red flags, but thankfully we have Green Flag Friends (GFF’s)! Our GFF’s are the people who consistently uplift, support and enrich our lives. With GFF’s, everything is . . . just what it appears!
So, what earns a friend a place in the GFF zone? Check out this list of green flag behaviors and think about the people in your inner circle who fit the description.
GREEN FLAG BEHAVIORS:
1. Non-Competitive: Feels joy in your success and don’t turn life into a competition.
2. Apologies and Forgiveness: Can apologize when wrong and forgive misunderstandings or mistakes.
3. Consistency: Reliable and consistent in their actions and support.
4. Supportive During Hard Times: Offers a shoulder to lean on during your toughest days without making it about them.
5. Growth Together: Supports and inspires personal growth, sometimes challenging you, but always with love.
6. Honesty with Tact: Honest and straightforward, but always in a kind and respectful manner.
7. Mutual Respect: Respects your boundaries, opinions, and life choices without judgment.
8. Positive Encouragement: Encourages your aspirations and celebrate your achievements with you.
Think about these behaviors when evaluating your current circle of friends or when meeting potential new ones. Friendships are worth the effort put into them, because having the right people around is what truly makes life magical!
FIND GFF’s and BE a GFF!
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